As we continue the topic of grief, allow us all to be healthy in this process of getting to know who we are in these new realities. Allow us to take note of what is happening to us all in the times of these moments, but to also let us all be in state of minds and wavelengths to attain the blessings that are presented when we are ready to receive them in your holy name.
~In Jesus Name, Amen
Let's just jump into part 2 of this topic shall we! Another form of grief that people may or may not have experienced is also Inhibited grief. This is a grief form that involves someone repressing their emotions from the loss itself. It can also come in a way of confusion to the person as well; most situations where someone is grieving a loss can come to a surprise to many. Some people really don't realize this is the form of grief that arises when things happen. It can lead to a lot of anxiety, insomnia, and many more physical symptoms that can cause the body to react. I have had many incidences where I had to suppress my grief to please others in their comfort to be around me during the beginning stages of my own experiences with grief. I didn't really have a voice to say what I felt for a long time, until I started to go to grief therapy. It is such a weird feeling doing something as simple as speaking to someone you don't really know too well, but in a way it is still very comforting as they are literally there to hear you tell your story and give you ways to navigated through the grieving process as a whole; I highly recommend this route if this is a grief you are experiencing because there are many forms of therapy not just on a verbal stand point.
The next form of grief I will be speaking on is Anticipatory grief which in lamest turns is a form of grief that involves the grief before the actual loss happens. This process of grief allows the person to not only find peace in where their loved one or self may transition off to, but it also is like a preparation of what is to come rather it being an unexpected event. It is always important to allow yourself the space to grieve in a proper setting so you can breathe more life into the pain that arises. Sometimes when we get to this point in our grief we can feel a sense of guilt or unsettling feelings when we move on with life without these people or even having to experience death on our own terms. But when God is with you he will make sure you are in his hands with everything that goes on. In a way you don't feel worried about the outcome of things, as the comfort of transitioning to the spirit world can bring you more joy than anything. I felt these ways when knowing my daughter was going to pass away as well. There were times where I was indeed in denial but I was able to pull through knowing her conditions were not the best and that she would be at peace not having to endure drastic measures. Coping with this kind of grief can consist of any type of curriculum activities such as coloring or drawing as well as making music for these emotions.
The healing journey from many of these forms of grief can come in many shapes and sizes. A lot of times people result into substances to hide from the pain as it is the easiest way to mask the feeling. In all realness, this doesn't do much for us on a scale of wanting to heal but rather it hurts the space we can be using to create a new for ourselves. We have to live for these beautiful souls who graced upon our lives for divine reasons that are to be discussed between you and the most high. I'm honored to have the space to help those in need of whatever they may be going through as these are things most don't seek to find, but as long as you are wanting to see divine results for your life, you will do anything to make sure the path that you are leading yourself on is pure for your soul. I'm wishing for an abundance of healing to bestow upon each and every one of you who have been consistent with me or who are just now finding out about this hidden gem of a blog! <3
~Indigo Vibration<3 1111
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